August 29, 2012

What would we do about inevitable aging

   
What should we do about inevitable aging? its a very complicated question if we ask and think that we don't want to be old or perhaps we thought about fountain of youth maybe,in fact,some people were into surgery to look younger despite of the age,some because of the signs of aging which is visible.this would be accomplished for those people that has the capability in regards to financial matter,however this is not totally make us younger inside physically and psychologically,this would be just outer look for those had a successful operation,although some are successful achieving the desire to look younger from outside appearance,but for sure,no one can stop aging in a truthful opinion and honest way to express thought,all of us will get older as days goes by.this is inevitable and should be accepted.


Getting older means,''growing''.growing in a sense that,our age adding as days moving forward or as to say as clock ticking.for me,I am proud each day having the chance to live and thankful to the lord above extending my life,that's the way how I am so grateful getting older,but I know that there's a lot of challenges ahead on my way that I could experience,but I am always ready to face it no matter how hard it is,I just often reminds myself that all of this is a part of my life.

Couple years ago when I was a Caregiver in Israel,I learned many things in comes to what is the real meaning of life and what are those purposed why I became a Caregiver,by understanding this,I do much love what I am doing day by day,taking care for elderly patients,child patient and in all ages patient as a whole.despite what their condition in life,they're all willing to move on and courageously face any difficulties that may on their way,and what really amazed me a lot is how they carry all of those challenges and still managed to smile.beside,every patient has different health condition,whether disability,in born illness or other diseases,or for some patient being elderly citizens they've experiencing weaknesses and some health problem as they getting much older.but all of them had only one thought and desire,which is to have a chance to live more and wishing that their health condition would not be worsen,as a caregiver,all of those negative feelings in each day that they had,I do constantly felt it likely in which truly open my mind to have a wider understanding on what is life really for us,and how much we need to be thankful everyday when we open our eyes in the morning and before going to bed at night to ask more of life to offer.

To shorten this,each and everyone of us has purposed in life.and no one knows what lies ahead of us,but for sure all of us hoping and wishing what would be on that way ahead must be good,and if not,we must to find a way or solution to overcome any difficulties and challenges that served in our table and continue to step forward,there's nothing we can do about aging,we can't reverse or change the way we wanted to,we must just to understand in a dipper way of what life is,and continue to live what life is to offer because we never know when would be our time.we must to enjoy life to the fullest because life is without spare just only one,so we must often to take care of ourselves the best that we could,and prepare for our retirement day.because its too hard being old without financial capacity to afford those expensive medication or daily medicine maintenance.some elderly people are prepared to live and stay in Care home this people had  intelligently save money for their coming retirement,each and everyone of us must be responsible for our own good sake,and we must  be prepared for our retirement day,so that we can enjoy our fruit of labor being a pensioner.

 In some countries,being old or getting older is a sign to be anxious,this is because they don't have saving for their retirement day,they worked harder all day long just enough for daily expenses like food and bills,nothing to save.that's why in some countries old people are cared by their family,and they stay with their son or daughter.in other hand,some elderly people without family to stay,most of this cases they are brought  to home for the aged,this home for the aged own by the government or none government organization like foundation that created by those people with good heart and cares for our senior citizens.its hard if we imagined isn't it,being old without family,or being old without financial capability.so the only way we can do,is to be prepared,save for retirement,take care of our health.because aging is a process of life,that's the way how life means.  









You can check books from amazon.com one of the good book is How to Care for Aging Parents:
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                               How to Care for Aging Parents (Morris, How to Care for Aging)

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