August 12, 2011

Fallen to be a Family Caregiver

There are those,circumstances that inevitably happen in sudden unprepared time,and is not just happen in seldom way,or a seasonal way,it'll happen in a surprise entrance,and change color suddenly,without notice,
this are the things that no one will be wishing to be into,but sometimes,situation came into the pace of our lives,without politely knocking on our doors,is like a bad dream when we are on sleep,and
wishing that when I'll woke up,all will be just a dream,a bad dream,but what if is in real?do anyone can able to restart it,like in our computers,and or refresh it,or reformat it to start a new configured windows,none of this thing will be a    'Help',when it comes dealing life and facing reality and trials,but despite of any trials that any one of us experiences,all will say truly,is like a weather,that goes in our way,living some traces of rain water or if calamity, living some damages,but if we can observe it,despite all that we encounter.
all the hardship and trials that comes into our way,life must to step forward and continue to rotate,and remain the same all over again, one time I grab a cup of coffee early in the morning and having a seat in front of my laptop,thinking of what will I write,that will flow out naturally within me,then I start writing,as I wrote this article,i wanted to give an encouragement to others that in to the situation of trials and hardship,because its really happening around the corner where we live,as we called it our mother earth,even me,I've been into the situation of hardship and trials,and some of those are unwanted for me to be on my pace,but in spite of all the trials that I've been through,I keep on moving on,despite of the heavy weight on my shoulder,i just think constantly that,continuing moving forward will ease and lessen the weight and all will be fine.

Some of those people that Fallen to be a Family Caregiver,for their love ones,they never expected it, in their entire life,and I truly understand,what they felt and is not that easy,but life must to move on, and continue, despite of the trials and hardship,all will be in place,and to learned to live with it,and being always strong and
brave to face challenges in our day to day life,being a Family Care Giver,is not that easy,it involves a lots of pressure and stress,such as physical and emotional,also mentally stress,but when we care for our love ones,
and giving all the best in our maximum effort to give the best care, that our love ones deserved,slowly, ourselves  will get used to the situation,because,it'll be the way, on how our love ones live,and that situation is the current routine to be used to,and go on to our daily lives,is just a way that maintaining the health status of our love ones,and making the best ways to make our love ones feel that we're there for them, and everything will be just fine. because life changes the way how we live,and is a part of our journey in this world,and there always a way,on how to live of lives on the the actual way where we are stepping, just we must to accept and always learned to move on,and when we do our task and duties daily such as medication,daily treatments and others important task,we must to have a time to have a talking to our love ones,to help them by giving encouragements and lifting them up to be able to move on also,the same way what we do,because encouragement really help for the improvement,within us,in our emotion,mental,and later followed by physical improvement,and bear always in mind,to often include the spiritual support,all this mention are really important for inner straight and can help for physical recovery and as we know that our mind is the control panel of our whole being,and have a lots of patience,time will come,and no body knows,the recovery and improvement will arrived that you will never know,that's already happening. BY : J.LE

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