CAREGIVER GEAR

There are gears to be take into account when in care giving,these gears can help the

caregiver to be in cool mode and normal when as needed,care giving is always a hard

task and challenging also stressful,but can be deal with essential formula that can be

always useful in care giving job,gear can be shifted in many ways depending on what

the personality of the caregiver,in care giving,is always depend who will be the caregiver

and what is the personality and characteristics as well as the attitude of the caregiver as

a person,caregiver job is always a test for the caregiver in day by day works and duties

and to the maximum capacity of the caregiver will be tested by time and situation.

and is always depending on the situation often on who the caregiver or who is the patient

as to say one way to the other.

Gear that I myself learn to use it in my care giving days is,shifting from negative to

positive mode,always find a way to divert the negative mode to positive mode as much

as it could to be able to have a good day and good flow relationship between caregiver

and patient,and one of the positive gear that useful is patience,patience is the one of the

key to have a good mode and positive flow,patience in care giving task must always

push to the maximum and its not that easy,as a caregiver,toughness in inner feelings

to be able to do such duties in positive result,not minding the negative feelings that

cause by our sensitivity when patient hurt our feelings,in caregiver always bear in mind

that taking care of a sick and needy person due to some diseases or disabilities that

sometime or often the patient doesn't mind if he/she are hurting the feelings of the care

provider,sensitivity in care giving must to be able to learn it to manage in controlling

oneself for better result,because sometime our sensitivity put us into negative flow,

sensitivity in oneself has two faces, the negative and the positive,this sensitivity is

must be deal in a right way to avoid any sudden discharge and the outcome is to give

up,this case can vary depending on the situation for both parties,sometimes there are

some situation that mismatched issue, and the chemistry for both caregiver and the

patient is impossible to match even for a caregiver that has a huge of patience,or

patient doesn't wanted the caregiver even for couple of months together,this cases

mention is really happening and the result of this cases is one will give up either

the caregiver or the patient,is always depend on the situation,case to case basis in

short to say.

Care giving gear is always useful for the caregiver as well for the patient sake,

just always bear in mind that always shift the gear from negative to positive in

hence. If the patient is always irritable and thinking too much of what is the hard

situation that he/she is in,always shift the gear to divert the mind of the patient to

think good things and let the good essence flow in the mind of the patient and let

the patient feel that you are always there beside him/her often to help and to be

the person that he/she can talk to what really bothers on or anxiety that cause

any mental disturbance that can lead to unhealthy for the physical,emotional well

being of the patient.

Just always find a way to shift the gear from negative to positive to obtain a

good and smooth flow between you as a caregiver and the patient. always open

to learn at all times what is the vital way to help the patient and in all ways as

much as possible and it will be a great result for both caregiver and patient in

days to come and building a good trust in both.        BY: J.LE