June 22, 2011

ACCEPTANCE AS A CAREGIVER

 
Miracle,this is the word that usually all of us people are always asking when time of
hardship and trial in our life, like trials that comes into our way sometimes is hard to accept
the fact, but all of us always asking for miracle specially when it comes to the situation
that involve our love ones that on the situation of losing them in our life and sometimes
is so hard to accept the reality,that we can say why its happening,when we see a person
that is very sick or in worse cases disease and the time is so slim to live the normal life, that
all of us are always wishing,this situation is hard and some are unfortunately is in the said
situation or was in this situation,and the truth, nobody will ever wanted to be in this situation.
But sometimes inevitable things and situation that unwanted to be happen,suddenly happen.
We can able to fell the grieve and sorrow of those people that experience losing their love
ones in their lives and sudden farewell that within is so painful and hard to accept,
and when you will just imagine how hard it is,its amazing because some of the very sick
people survive and still fighting for life to have the normal life as healthy as it could and
if not that healthy 100%,some chooses just to have a bit of extended time to live, because
they wanted a bit of time to spend together with their love ones.

All of us people wishes just one simple wish that most of us are often wishing,is to be as
healthy in day by day and enjoy the normal life that all of us are always wanted and
prayed for,in my personal experience as a caregiver,i had learned a lot of things to
understand life,and it shaped me as a whole as human, and as a complete to understand
what life really mean,when my care giving days I was so very observant to all
of what is really happening inside the world of care giving, and there's a lot of lesson that
I learned and will always be a part of my life as a human and as a person also as a caregiver,
as a care provider in past,i encounter a lots of patient and different kinds of sickness that
the patient is into,and I witness all the hardship and how they keep on fighting to stay
alive and wishes always to be healthy. and to feel better and stay more time for their
family and love ones. and in those time,i really do all the best I can to help and be the
person that the patient can count on, and to talk to,and in my heart I truly considered my
patients is my best friend.

In my care giving days,i often wishes for a miracle for my patients to give them
more life to be with their family and love ones together and be happy to enjoy life.
there was a time when me and my patient as well as the family are down due to the
situation that hard to imagine that is really happening before our eyes, that aware of
what will be in next couple of days,and all the medical staff in the hospital are doing
all the best of what they could as well me as a caregiver,the situation of my patient is
complicated and the chances of surviving is so slim,the only thing to extend the life
of my patient is by miracle,and on that time I always sit beside of my patient bed in
the hospital to be with him and I always pray that my patient will receive the miracle
from above and I always asking GOD to give my patient a new life for them to be
happy and be together for extended period of time and how I wanted the family of
my patient to be happy,but sometime, time comes, for each and everyone of us and
when that time comes and if its hard to accept,one thing we must always put into,
acceptance, that its not on our hand,its all above and we must always learn to accept
and go on with our lives no matter how hard it is,that's what really life is,and acceptance
is always a part of our life.

And its my privileged to be part of the caregiver world, that in my life I was able to
be a part of those good people, to be as part of my heart and true to me and treated me
as one of their own family. The happy moments that me and my patient shared together
was the greatest moment that part of me as a person and in my whole being as human.
Until know I always have a time to think about my patient that loves me and the family
of the patient as well. and I truly do all my best to the maximum range of my abilities
to serve and be one of their family that care and love them.     BY: J.LE


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