August 26, 2012

Lesson being a Caregiver

Lesson being a Caregiver,sounds interesting isn't it?well, its a worth lesson as a whole for me,in fact,lesson that I've learned being a Caregiver is part of my life,and if you believe or not,I used to overcome any obstacles and difficulties ahead of my way,no matter how hard it is,i just often remind myself that,those elderly patient that I took care also those child and as well in all ages that suffered from ailments, diseases,disabilities etc. they do overcome any challenges that may on their way,in present nor future.

they had faced it bravely to pursue to live in-spite of their condition, they do still smile and lived like nothing to be worried about,its like diverting the negative vision to a positive way of living normally having those courage to overcome as to say,this is one of the lesson that I've learned how to live life,although there's constantly an occurrences that comes into our life without asking our acceptance,sometimes we would think that how unfair it is,sometimes we thought that perhaps unluckily for some,they considered it hatred due to the situation or condition that they have,this is normal feelings,because all of us wishes to live happily and healthy.we work hard and having a dream to attain,focus on what our drive toward for a better future.but inevitably some ugly circumstances that we never in our life expected,our dreamed seldom become unfriendly to force us to accept what comes in our life,this is because sometimes what we destined is not we dreamed about but accepting it and learned to live with it,in this case it is not general, it is case to case basis,clarifying it,some don't some does.that's veritable and unavoidable,that's the way we all live.sometime I imagine how if there's no aging,we can live forever happily enjoying the meaning of life isn't it,maybe all will be given opportunity and space for improvement to better the way we live, how wonderful it may if that happen.

Summarizing it; life is full of challenges that comes from a varieties of choices and not,meaning.we can be what we want in terms of profession,career,business tycoon. however some doesn't as successful to achieved what they wanted.it sound like complicated,perhaps we would think that why this is happening.why life had level in terms of what you have or who you are,what kind of family you belong and capability in comes to financial matter,its a kind of race if we just analyze it further.who is the most wealthy would always be on the top of others and constantly growing, but some are in a situation of difficulty which experiencing hunger,disease,misfortune,homeless,jobless.those are some of the negative face of life.but if we just deeply understood what life in a dipper meaning probably we would be calm and intuitively balance the situation and knows how to drive it going to righteous path,what matters most is how we live,how we do the right thing for us as well for others,doing right is one of the vital mission for all of us to comply,that's how to live.no matter how hard our situation,we must do all our best to do right things,and share it to others what is good, so that it will remind them to do good and right as well.

No matter how hard we face life,keep moving forward and do the right and good for other as well for ourselves also for our love ones,if sometimes tough challenges comes,always think that it is just we are tested how we understand life and how to live with it as well as to continue to do good and often moving on. 



You may wanted to check some good books from amazon.com as follow below:




     Life Lessons for Caregivers   








   

The Art of Conversation Through Serious Illness: Lessons for Caregivers









A Most Reluctant Caregiver: A daughter learns valuable lessons as her difficult mother enters the sunset of her years





1 comment:

Anonymous said...

your words are so inspiring..thank you.