CAREGIVER GEAR

There are gears to be take into account when in care giving,these gears can help the

caregiver to be in cool mode and normal when as needed,care giving is always a hard

task and challenging also stressful,but can be deal with essential formula that can be

always useful in care giving job,gear can be shifted in many ways depending on what

the personality of the caregiver,in care giving,is always depend who will be the caregiver

and what is the personality and characteristics as well as the attitude of the caregiver as

a person,caregiver job is always a test for the caregiver in day by day works and duties

and to the maximum capacity of the caregiver will be tested by time and situation.

and is always depending on the situation often on who the caregiver or who is the patient

as to say one way to the other.

Gear that I myself learn to use it in my care giving days is,shifting from negative to

positive mode,always find a way to divert the negative mode to positive mode as much

as it could to be able to have a good day and good flow relationship between caregiver

and patient,and one of the positive gear that useful is patience,patience is the one of the

key to have a good mode and positive flow,patience in care giving task must always

push to the maximum and its not that easy,as a caregiver,toughness in inner feelings

to be able to do such duties in positive result,not minding the negative feelings that

cause by our sensitivity when patient hurt our feelings,in caregiver always bear in mind

that taking care of a sick and needy person due to some diseases or disabilities that

sometime or often the patient doesn't mind if he/she are hurting the feelings of the care

provider,sensitivity in care giving must to be able to learn it to manage in controlling

oneself for better result,because sometime our sensitivity put us into negative flow,

sensitivity in oneself has two faces, the negative and the positive,this sensitivity is

must be deal in a right way to avoid any sudden discharge and the outcome is to give

up,this case can vary depending on the situation for both parties,sometimes there are

some situation that mismatched issue, and the chemistry for both caregiver and the

patient is impossible to match even for a caregiver that has a huge of patience,or

patient doesn't wanted the caregiver even for couple of months together,this cases

mention is really happening and the result of this cases is one will give up either

the caregiver or the patient,is always depend on the situation,case to case basis in

short to say.

Care giving gear is always useful for the caregiver as well for the patient sake,

just always bear in mind that always shift the gear from negative to positive in

hence. If the patient is always irritable and thinking too much of what is the hard

situation that he/she is in,always shift the gear to divert the mind of the patient to

think good things and let the good essence flow in the mind of the patient and let

the patient feel that you are always there beside him/her often to help and to be

the person that he/she can talk to what really bothers on or anxiety that cause

any mental disturbance that can lead to unhealthy for the physical,emotional well

being of the patient.

Just always find a way to shift the gear from negative to positive to obtain a

good and smooth flow between you as a caregiver and the patient. always open

to learn at all times what is the vital way to help the patient and in all ways as

much as possible and it will be a great result for both caregiver and patient in

days to come and building a good trust in both.        BY: J.LE

ACCEPTANCE AS A CAREGIVER

 

Miracle,this is the word that usually all of us people are always asking when time of

hardship and trial in our life, like trials that comes into our way sometimes is hard to accept

the fact, but all of us always asking for miracle specially when it comes to the situation

that involve our love ones that on the situation of losing them in our life and sometimes

is so hard to accept the reality,that we can say why its happening,when we see a person

that is very sick or in worse cases disease and the time is so slim to live the normal life, that

all of us are always wishing,this situation is hard and some are unfortunately is in the said

situation or was in this situation,and the truth, nobody will ever wanted to be in this situation.

But sometimes inevitable things and situation that unwanted to be happen,suddenly happen.

We can able to fell the grieve and sorrow of those people that experience losing their love

ones in their lives and sudden farewell that within is so painful and hard to accept,

and when you will just imagine how hard it is,its amazing because some of the very sick

people survive and still fighting for life to have the normal life as healthy as it could and

if not that healthy 100%,some chooses just to have a bit of extended time to live, because

they wanted a bit of time to spend together with their love ones.

All of us people wishes just one simple wish that most of us are often wishing,is to be as

healthy in day by day and enjoy the normal life that all of us are always wanted and

prayed for,in my personal experience as a caregiver,i had learned a lot of things to

understand life,and it shaped me as a whole as human, and as a complete to understand

what life really mean,when my care giving days I was so very observant to all

of what is really happening inside the world of care giving, and there's a lot of lesson that

I learned and will always be a part of my life as a human and as a person also as a caregiver,

as a care provider in past,i encounter a lots of patient and different kinds of sickness that

the patient is into,and I witness all the hardship and how they keep on fighting to stay

alive and wishes always to be healthy. and to feel better and stay more time for their

family and love ones. and in those time,i really do all the best I can to help and be the

person that the patient can count on, and to talk to,and in my heart I truly considered my

patients is my best friend.

In my care giving days,i often wishes for a miracle for my patients to give them

more life to be with their family and love ones together and be happy to enjoy life.

there was a time when me and my patient as well as the family are down due to the

situation that hard to imagine that is really happening before our eyes, that aware of

what will be in next couple of days,and all the medical staff in the hospital are doing

all the best of what they could as well me as a caregiver,the situation of my patient is

complicated and the chances of surviving is so slim,the only thing to extend the life

of my patient is by miracle,and on that time I always sit beside of my patient bed in

the hospital to be with him and I always pray that my patient will receive the miracle

from above and I always asking GOD to give my patient a new life for them to be

happy and be together for extended period of time and how I wanted the family of

my patient to be happy,but sometime, time comes, for each and everyone of us and

when that time comes and if its hard to accept,one thing we must always put into,

acceptance, that its not on our hand,its all above and we must always learn to accept

and go on with our lives no matter how hard it is,that's what really life is,and acceptance

is always a part of our life.

And its my privileged to be part of the caregiver world, that in my life I was able to

be a part of those good people, to be as part of my heart and true to me and treated me

as one of their own family. The happy moments that me and my patient shared together

was the greatest moment that part of me as a person and in my whole being as human.

Until know I always have a time to think about my patient that loves me and the family

of the patient as well. and I truly do all my best to the maximum range of my abilities

to serve and be one of their family that care and love them.     BY: J.LE

KEY TO GOOD CARE FOR PATIENT AS A CAREGIVER.

Key to good care for the patient is always the one of the vital goal of the caregiver

to give to the patient,good services and good relationship between the caregiver as

well for the patient,in care giving,there are lots of vital things to be always taken

into responsibilities as a caregiver,at the first time, the caregiver and patient met

there will be hesitant in each other moves,this is part of the adjustment period

for both, and the caregiver must to do the best move to gain the trust of the patient

and as well as the family of the patient,to be able to gain the trust of the patient and

family of the patient,one thing that always an important and always the vital aspect

of good caregiver is honesty and openly for all ways as well as being responsible

and can be trusted in all matters regarding medical treatment and as a whole,often

bear in mind that in care giving career there will be always an adjustment,as a care

provider,the ability to be flexible is always on the table to be taken into important

task, and have the preparedness at all times to adjust in all situation that will be on

the way,always remember that as a caregiver you are doing such very important rule

for the patient as a whole,and always work that comes from your heart,because patient

always can sense what deep in you as a caregiver.

Just be yourself as who you are as a person, that giving the best care and a honest

person that always can be trusted in all ways and in emergency situation,always be

responsible in all you do regarding the duties and responsibilities at all times and

always be creative to divert a situation from negative to a positive mode,this all

is very important in care giving,being what you are and working from your heart

that give the best care for the patient,not just because you are just doing your

responsibilities as a caregiver, but always do your job that comes from the heart,

and loving your patient as one of your own family. Sometimes there will be a

patient that hate almost all person that surrounded with him/her and always hated

anybody,that's why I always said that as a caregiver always be flexible and open

minded on any situation that will be ahead on your ways, because situation that

will be on your way as a caregiver is always challenging and always different

situation from one way to the other and this is always happening in care giving

world,always understand what will be the situation and not to take it personal

when sometime some patient hurting the feelings of the caregiver because sometimes

some patient doesn't know what they do, and its not intentional that sometimes

they said bad word to the caregiver, and if taken personal, it will be a negative effect

in caregiver feelings as a person and this will be include emotional,physical,mental

health problem in the future for the caregiver.

Always be open minded and truly understand what is the meaning of the caregiver

before entering into,because care giving career is always challenging and stressful but

all of this thing can be manage wisely for the good sake of your own as a caregiver.

Key to good care giving is included a huge WIDE in all matters as a whole in care

giving job.

WIDER UNDERSTANDING IN ALL SIDE OF CARE GIVING JOB.

WIDER SPACE FOR PATIENCE IN ALL SIDE OF CARE GIVING JOB.

WIDER TIME TO LEARN NEW THINGS IN ALL SIDE OF CARE GIVING JOB.

WIDER MIND TO BE OPEN MINDED, WISELY KNOW DIFFERENT ATTITUDE

OF DIFFERENT PATIENT THAT WILL BE AHEAD IN YOUR WAY.

WIDER PLACE IN YOUR HEART TO LOVE THE PATIENT AS ONE OF YOUR

OWN FAMILY.

WIDER GOOD MOMENT THAT DEVELOPED A GOOD FOUNDATION AND

CONNECTION IN BUILDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN PATIENT

AND YOU AS A CAREGIVER AND AS WELL FOR THE PATIENT FAMILY.      BY: J.LE