ACCEPTANCE AS A CAREGIVER

 

Miracle,this is the word that usually all of us people are always asking when time of

hardship and trial in our life, like trials that comes into our way sometimes is hard to accept

the fact, but all of us always asking for miracle specially when it comes to the situation

that involve our love ones that on the situation of losing them in our life and sometimes

is so hard to accept the reality,that we can say why its happening,when we see a person

that is very sick or in worse cases disease and the time is so slim to live the normal life, that

all of us are always wishing,this situation is hard and some are unfortunately is in the said

situation or was in this situation,and the truth, nobody will ever wanted to be in this situation.

But sometimes inevitable things and situation that unwanted to be happen,suddenly happen.

We can able to fell the grieve and sorrow of those people that experience losing their love

ones in their lives and sudden farewell that within is so painful and hard to accept,

and when you will just imagine how hard it is,its amazing because some of the very sick

people survive and still fighting for life to have the normal life as healthy as it could and

if not that healthy 100%,some chooses just to have a bit of extended time to live, because

they wanted a bit of time to spend together with their love ones.

All of us people wishes just one simple wish that most of us are often wishing,is to be as

healthy in day by day and enjoy the normal life that all of us are always wanted and

prayed for,in my personal experience as a caregiver,i had learned a lot of things to

understand life,and it shaped me as a whole as human, and as a complete to understand

what life really mean,when my care giving days I was so very observant to all

of what is really happening inside the world of care giving, and there's a lot of lesson that

I learned and will always be a part of my life as a human and as a person also as a caregiver,

as a care provider in past,i encounter a lots of patient and different kinds of sickness that

the patient is into,and I witness all the hardship and how they keep on fighting to stay

alive and wishes always to be healthy. and to feel better and stay more time for their

family and love ones. and in those time,i really do all the best I can to help and be the

person that the patient can count on, and to talk to,and in my heart I truly considered my

patients is my best friend.

In my care giving days,i often wishes for a miracle for my patients to give them

more life to be with their family and love ones together and be happy to enjoy life.

there was a time when me and my patient as well as the family are down due to the

situation that hard to imagine that is really happening before our eyes, that aware of

what will be in next couple of days,and all the medical staff in the hospital are doing

all the best of what they could as well me as a caregiver,the situation of my patient is

complicated and the chances of surviving is so slim,the only thing to extend the life

of my patient is by miracle,and on that time I always sit beside of my patient bed in

the hospital to be with him and I always pray that my patient will receive the miracle

from above and I always asking GOD to give my patient a new life for them to be

happy and be together for extended period of time and how I wanted the family of

my patient to be happy,but sometime, time comes, for each and everyone of us and

when that time comes and if its hard to accept,one thing we must always put into,

acceptance, that its not on our hand,its all above and we must always learn to accept

and go on with our lives no matter how hard it is,that's what really life is,and acceptance

is always a part of our life.

And its my privileged to be part of the caregiver world, that in my life I was able to

be a part of those good people, to be as part of my heart and true to me and treated me

as one of their own family. The happy moments that me and my patient shared together

was the greatest moment that part of me as a person and in my whole being as human.

Until know I always have a time to think about my patient that loves me and the family

of the patient as well. and I truly do all my best to the maximum range of my abilities

to serve and be one of their family that care and love them.     BY: J.LE