Disabilities steps to acceptance

Disabilities steps to acceptance,as I started to write this post,there's a feelings within me that encouraged me to write this post,thinking that this would be the voice to express naturally on what I felt and on what I truly
and deeply understood on what is the feelings of those patient with disabilities health condition,considering there's various kind of disabilities health condition,and the reason on why one is in that situation,some are in born and some by accident,unfortunately within this condition,those
in born disabilities patient and those patient with disabilities cause by accident,definitely limit their mobilities,in a dipper way to explain for sure,they're not happy for what the situation that they are into,this feeling mostly comes for those patient with disabilities that resulted by unwanted accident,this may be cause by car accident or other accidents that put a person into the situation of amputation, because of a broken bone cause by accident,whether the spine,arm,leg,hand,foot or shoulder is broken and damages,and there's no room for option but to amputate the patient to avoid further infection that can risk the life of the patient,amputation is the action to save life,hard to accept!!! but choice will be tough,and life is very important,that's why mostly of the severe accident survivor continue to live, without those damages parts,process will be learning to move on to live,and to adapt what the present situation and continue to move forward,this is a hard situation for the patient,and the acceptance is a must to be able to continue to move on,there's no words to described this, but the hardest or toughest situation that one would be into,all of the mixed self pity,and the anger will be a destruction,and can make things much more harder for the patient in the process,as to say its all a matter in mind,a patient must to accept the actual situation to be able to ease how he could live with it,in this kind of situation,the help of the people that around the patient,as well as the medical team and health care team too,will be very important,to help the patient to move on,psychological help will play a vital role for the patient acceptance to continue life despite what happen,this would be not an easy task,but it would be in a right place in time in a matter of process,step by step would really help the patient,team will composed starting with the Physician,Psychologist,Social Worker,Nurses,Physical Therapist,Occupational Therapist,Caregiver and the patient love ones will do help also in comes to helping the patient to accept the situation,and to cooperate with the medical team and health care team as well to ease the treatments,working as a team to be able to achieved the better result,people around the patient must to listen ,and feel what the patient feel, and must able to help effectively in a dipper way.

As a Caregiver,all of the vital responsibilities to help the patient in whole dimension,is always a must,specially when the patient is emotional,you must to be there to listen and comfort the patient whenever needed,and maintaining the good relationship as caregiver and patient,and allow a huge dipper space between you and the patient by building the dipper connection,this will help a lot for the patient, and lead the situation in a normal mode,always do listen and feel what is the dipper side of the patient,letting the patient feel that you are there to help and to listen likewise as often,as the person that can be count on and trust,all of this very important point is a task for the caregiver to deliver and promote good result in comes to the whole dimension of the patient situation,if you constantly do it with heart,you will be able to help the patient in psychological,physical,emotional and spiritually,because you are there not just only being a caregiver that do the responsibilities and the task and duties of a caregiver,but a person that doing all of those important role as human with heart that truly understand in a dipper aspect,always do all the best to achieve the smile of the patient,cause happiness within the patient heart,will help a lot in come to good health of the patient and as a whole being of the patient.   
BY : J.LE