CAREGIVER MAKES THE DIFFERENCE

Caregiver in career or being the caregiver to your own father or mother neither

a caregiver for your grand father or grand mother,is always a hard and challenging

job or challenging responsibility, also task daily for caring your own love ones,

is a challenging and hard constantly, as we knew that care giving is not that easy,

but for people that being a caregiver for their love ones, is by choice,some 
chooses to be a caregiver for their love ones by their own different reason,
whether they'll hire a caregiver or they do it by their own choice,making the
difference of being a caregiver,is not just being a caregiver in words or just
doing the responsibilities and all the task and that's it,its not only that,

being a caregiver is not that easy,doing all the hard works,having stress,measuring

patience to the maximum,and others, you often test your patience again and again until

you'll give up and pass the ball to someone. And say its enough!,being a caregiver,a

true caregiver,is measured deeply,within the heart of the caregiver,in a way on how he/she

handle's the patience into the highest point, and the way how he/she understand the stage

that he/she stands,there's a lot's of obstacle being a good caregiver,the obstacles that often

put the caregiver on the hole,such as stress,pressure,fatigued,and it involves in physical,

mentally,emotional,spiritual, this are all, as a caregiver must to put on the table,to be tested.

Its like a car,it'll not run if there's no gasoline filled on tank,in care-giving the patience is

the gas for the caregiver to continue in moving forward,

giving care for old patient is great and challenging role for the caregiver,hard of course

but the first and foremost for the caregiver to bear always in mind is,understanding the

situation what,how and why, the patient needed a caregiver or need the help for someone,

either because of their age or disabilities or other reasonable circumstances that put them

into that situation,first to considered is, and must fully understand is,the patient doesn't

wanted for someone to care for him/her or having someone giving all the help or assistance

in things that the patient is unable to do,its hard for the patient also as you the caregiver

felt,no one wanted to be disable,no one wanted to be sick,no one wanted to be assist in

waring your own shoes and all simple things that before you can do and suddenly all

of that simple and easy things took away from you and put you on the state of disabilities,

or due to old age,they unable to do things that they can do it alone before,think about it,

its hard for the patient isn't it?,both caregiver and patient is adjusting on the situation,

because of the patient feeling of anger,due to his/her situation they are irritable and

restless to be disturbing emotionally,not just for the caregiver but for the family as well,

the patient emotional state as well as the mental state, is in the shadow of anger and

prostration,because of the situation,as a caregiver,this will be a great and very challenging

task and role,the emotion,physical,mental state of the caregiver also are into the front

of the dark shadow of the patient,this will be testing the caregiver ability in all aspect.

As well as in all angles,on how to lift up the patient out of the dark shadow and bring

it to the sunshine that gives life and color to each and everyone of us.

Old patient,they need much attention and credit for all the effort that they done

in every treatment and understanding,as a caregiver, a widely understanding must

always be ready to serve and always prepared at all times,patience is the key and

understanding,with patience and understanding and responsible in all task also

present of mind at all times,will lead the caregiver and patient in a good connection,

treating each other as one of their own family and the openness to each other will

be as great as the harvest season of fruits.then that's makes the difference.

In Care-giving,the key to make the difference is always the same,in all ages,

from baby to old or teen or even patient with disabilities,the important things

always is bring the key to open the door to enter their world and bring their

world back to where they belong mentally,and the development with the

health condition will be great with the combine treatment of medication,

just be yourself and show the patient and let the patient feel the natural

you, not just a caregiver but a true friend that always understand and ready

always to listen,care, and being responsible and honest caregiver,and you as

caregiver will always treasured the great moment of being a caregiver.

'''''''THAT MAKES THE DIFFERENCE OF A CAREGIVER'''''''' BY:J.LE